NASHVILLE — Tennessee State kicker Coby May doesn't just line up kicks — he lines up life with purpose. Whether he's discussing field-goal technique, faith, or the psychology of leadership, the graduate transfer from Colorado Mesa approaches every topic with a philosopher's heart and an athlete's discipline.

"I've always tried to be someone who speaks life into people," May said. "It's not just about what you say, but what you do — having your actions match your words."

May's road to Nashville began in the mountains of Colorado, where his college career and spiritual journey took shape. A native of the Centennial State, May played his undergraduate years at Colorado Mesa, where he balanced football with snowboarding, hiking, and even working part-time as a zipline guide. For him, Mesa wasn't just a campus — it was a classroom in self-discovery.

"I loved my time there," he said. "Being outdoorsy as a kid, it gave me a new kind of freedom. I learned how to do things on my own — go fishing, hiking, just taking in life. It really built up my self-efficacy."

Originally a soccer standout, May didn't know much about Mesa before being recruited. The school first showed interest in him as a soccer player, but a football visit changed everything. The blend of athletics, nature, and tight-knit community pulled him in.

"It's funny — I grew up a Florida State fan because my grandparents lived in Florida," May said with a grin. "But once Mesa showed interest, I did my research and fell in love with the place."

After earning his degree, May was ready for a new challenge — and his next chapter unfolded in an unexpected way.

"The coolest part was that my recruitment to Tennessee State started with Coach Barlow — on Instagram," May said, laughing. "I just reached out and asked if he needed a grad transfer kicker with in-game experience. One thing led to another, and he invited me out to the spring game. After meeting him, I knew he was my guy."

That connection — built on trust and authenticity — became a guiding principle for May's time at TSU. It's also what made being selected as a team captain for Week 10 against Lindenwood one of the most meaningful moments of his college career.

"I didn't even know until we were walking out of the tunnel," he said. "Coach [Reggie] Barlow turned around and said, 'Where's Coby? You're going to be a captain today.' That meant a lot. It showed that the little things — being positive, uplifting your teammates — really matter."

May's leadership style is quiet but steady, rooted in example and energy. It's a reflection of what he's learned from mentors like Special Teams Coordinator Jerod Kruse, whose NFL experience and analytical mindset have pushed May to think deeper about performance — and people.

"Coach Kruse has taught me so much," May said. "He's big on communication and psychology — understanding how to interact with others. I even had a coaching and officiating minor at Mesa, so I love learning that side of the game. He challenges me every day to be a better kicker and a better thinker."

In a room filled with specialists — kickers, punters, and long snappers — May thrives on collaboration and shared growth.

"It's fun," he said. "We keep it relaxed, but when it's time to work, we lock in. We all build each other up. Freddie [Perez], Mark [Shenouda] , [Daniel] Bravo, Connor [Ridderhoff] — we're a family. We even pray before every game. That faith connection means a lot."

Faith, in fact, is one of May's defining traits. It wasn't until college that he began developing his own relationship with God — a journey that started when he began attending church on his own as a sophomore at Mesa.

"I just felt like I needed a change," he said. "I started going to a church called Canyonview, and it was amazing. Eventually, some of my teammates started coming with me. We built a Bible study group. That's where I learned the power of faith and community."

Family remains central to his story — especially his mother, whom he calls his "rock." Growing up as the oldest of five siblings, May learned early the importance of leadership, patience, and perseverance.

"Being the oldest taught me how to set the standard," he said. "It's about showing my brothers that anything's possible. My youngest brother's chasing basketball right now, and I love seeing that drive."

Away from football, May is a self-proclaimed "history buff" who enjoys reading, hammocking, and exploring Nashville's cultural landmarks — like the Parthenon, which he's visited multiple times with family.

"I'm fascinated by how things come to be — cities, people, structures, all of it," he said. "I love diving into the 'why' behind everything. I guess that's the philosopher side of me."

That curiosity extends to his dreams beyond football. With aspirations that blend athletics, leadership, and service, May envisions a future that could include coaching, athletic administration, or even running a nonprofit.

"I've always wanted to work in a front-office role or maybe be a college Athletic Director someday," he said. "But I also want to make a difference — maybe even start a nonprofit for adopting dogs to train as security dogs. It's all about helping people and making small changes where you can."

From the snowy slopes of Colorado to the bright lights of Nashville, May's journey is one of gratitude, growth, and grounded belief. Whether he's splitting the uprights or sparking a thoughtful conversation, "The Kicking Philosopher" continues to inspire through balance — between sport and spirit, competition and compassion, talent and thought.

As May puts it best, "Life's about being consistent in who you are, but also being human. If I can do that — on the field and off — then I'm doing what I'm meant to do."